Every Wednesday night at church for dinner I looked forward to getting my
meal and sitting down with Albert. He and I have eaten dinner together for the
past year and enjoyed fellowship and getting caught up with each other on the
activities of our week. Albert was a school teacher for 51 years and was
retired but still substituted at the high school. I always arrived at 5pm when
dinner started and Albert would already be there eating. As I got my meal and
joined him I would always ask where he substituted that day. It was fun hearing
the classroom stories and how his week was going. He informed me one Wednesday
he was having open heart surgery and would be missing dinner for a while.
Albert had the surgery and I visited him after and he was doing well. The surgery
seemed a success. After a few days he went to rehab and things seemed good
there too. Suddenly I received word he was back in ER with some complications
and the next thing I know he was gone. Albert passed away on Dec 20, 2013. Now
my friend and meal companion was gone.
Every Wednesday at 4pm I would leave my office after a crazy long day and go
to the church kitchen to get a glass of tea before dinner. I would visit with
the kitchen staff and Naomi, our Food Service Director, would be there with the
volunteers. We joked and laughed and talked about a variety of topics. Naomi
was there at church just about every day even though she was a part time
employee. Serving was her life and spiritual gift for sure. Just about every
event we did would involve food and so that meant Naomi was there helping.
We ministered together. I got a call on Friday, my day off, on Jan 2
nd
from the Waco police that they were there at Naomi’s home and that she had
passed away in the night totally unexpected. I was shocked! My wife and I made
the visit right away to her home and met with family. This made no sense!
I attended Albert’s memorial service and learned many new things about my
friend Albert that I had never heard. Many testimonies from the school and
students gave me new insights into Albert’s life that I wished I had known. I
spoke at Naomi’s memorial service being her supervisor I wanted to be a part of
her service. While visiting with the family the night before I learned so many
great things about Naomi I wished I had known.
I have come to realize that a funeral or memorial service is not the best
place to learn about a person’s life accomplishments, joys, likes, and personal
history. I found myself thinking in my mind that I wished I had spent more time
with Albert and Naomi getting to know them and their life. That was the message
I got from each service. Yes we celebrated their lives but I could have known
them better if I would have taken the time. I have known Albert and Naomi for over
six years. Naomi and I worked together, yet I really never took the time to
really get to know her. I wish I would have! Both Albert and Naomi were amazing
people had I known them better I believe our time here on earth would have been
even better.
My Wednesday nights at church will not be the same for a long time!
Here is the real lesson to learn from all this! Take the time to get
to know those around you while they are still alive. Celebrate life together,
pray with each other, and listen to their story. Everyone has a story to tell!
Make time to hear their story! Share YOUR story! Don’t wait until they
are gone and then wish you had known something about them. Learn it now and
have fun with it!
Comments? Discussion?
Luijarick